After the Storm by Esther Perel
This article can help you understand and find hope when you are feeling the excruciating pain of an affair.
Eros and Aging by Michael Metz and Barry McCarthy
An article about aging and sexual pleasure in long term relationships. By sex therapist and couples therapist, Barry McCarthy, author of Rekindling Desire, and Finding your Sexual Style. Written with colleague Michael Metz, Ph.D.
Masters of Love by John Gottman
An article about the findings of John Gottman, Ph.D., written for The Atlantic, on what makes couples “the masters of love” or “disasters of love” with ideas about how to push your partner away, or bring them close in simple daily conversations.
Where Does Love Go Wrong? by Sue Johnson
An article on one of the core concepts of Sue Johnson”s research from her book Hold Me Tight; Seven Conversations for a Lifetime of Love, A book based on the power of attachment and connection as the keys to healing and sustaining love relationships.
When Three Threatens Two by Esther Perel
This article was the precursor to Esther Perel”s book, Mating in Captivity, Understanding Erotic Intelligence. In this first article she writes of the natural phenomenon for couples when “the very love and sex they share to make a baby”, to move forward with their dreams of being a family, often dampens the very spark of coupledom and their erotic life.